I said god damn...god damn!!! -- Mia Wallace after sniffing coke
Almost Married On a Weekend
March 31, 2009Just to prove a point ha… - Sharyn
I finally got a call from Elver saying I might leave on April 9 or 10 (still crossing my fingers). And everybody knows that he did propose sometime November. But even before, he would bombard me with lines such as “O, pakasal na tayo before you leave ha…” As soon as he learns about my tentative flight he immediately asks me to marry him. Apparently, we only have 2 weeks!
Last Saturday, we left for Laguna. We’ll be attending a birthday party. In order to lessen the expenses, we both decided to hitch with Rangil. We were waiting for the whole gang at Starbucks when he opened my SUN phone. There were a couple of messages from Marja which I didn’t erase and did not even realize that the messages will create a big issue for him.
I told Marja that we cannot push through with the marriage now since I’d be having a hard time fixing the legal documents. Marja replies by saying “Oo nga naman, mahirap talaga magasikaso ng papeles…” Azman took it negatively and he thinks that I didn’t want to marry him all the while. And I didn’t really want to change my name under his. From Pansol, Laguna he walks out. I didn’t want to follow him or what have you since I don’t want to ruin the birthday party and create a commotion. After all I knew that he’ll be going to a close sis of ours whom he considers his nanay-nanayan. So he’ll be safe there.
Come Sunday morning I travelled all the way to San Pablo, Laguna to pick him up. I was so willing to marry him right there and then. But of course my senses were still intact. We both agreed that we have to move it to December. We ended up having a romantic dinner at Sulyap restaurant and planned our wedding.
So sabi nga ni Sharyn - Just to prove apoint ha… Papakasalan mo na talaga siya…
I know I should be more mature in terms of handling this situation. I admit…my first attempt in terms of building a family didn’t turn out as positive as I hoped for. Marriage is not somehing you decide in one sitting. It is a lifetime commitment after all. That’s why I want to be able to plan it as carefully as we could. Maybe I am just overwhelmed with the amount of love Azman is giving off.
Don’t get me wrong. I want to marry him and spend the rest of my life with him ASAP - i mean in one roof with all the kids and what have you. I cannot wait to be with my travel buddy. Hay pag-igib. ay wrong. Pag-Ibig nga naman…
